Rejecting someone online dating

24-Oct-2017 05:54

I have also been the victim, the one left rejected, confused and staring at my screen wondering what happened.

After all, it’s not fair to you or the other person to string them along if you don’t feel any spark of attraction or interest.

If you message back and dont reject them they think your intrested and now your involved in this convo you dont want to have and have to eventually reject them anyway.

If you message back and reject them its like hey thanks for messaging me but I dont find you attractive, thats even more a kick in the balls than no message back at all.

” These types of toe-in-the-water messages are lame, and you don’t necessarily need to feel pressure to respond.

The cold shoulder is also appropriate for messages that go beyond your comfort zone.

After all, it’s not fair to you or the other person to string them along if you don’t feel any spark of attraction or interest.

If you message back and dont reject them they think your intrested and now your involved in this convo you dont want to have and have to eventually reject them anyway.

If you message back and reject them its like hey thanks for messaging me but I dont find you attractive, thats even more a kick in the balls than no message back at all.

” These types of toe-in-the-water messages are lame, and you don’t necessarily need to feel pressure to respond.

The cold shoulder is also appropriate for messages that go beyond your comfort zone.

Were you reaching out to someone who listed requirements that you did not fit? Pick yourself back up and keep moving along because you never know who you will meet. A friend of mine was making plans to meet with an online match when he suddenly went MIA. Sometimes people drop off and pop back up again at a future time, and then you can be the one to do the rejecting.